I don’t want a lot for Christmas. There’s just one thing I need. In fact, all I want for Christmas is for singleton shaming to be a thing of the past. That, and a bottle of Le Labo Thé Noir 29, of course (IYKYK). If you’ve ever been single at Christmas, you’ll have likely been asked a question about your relationship status by a nosy relative. In reality, you’re unfettered and ready to snog a stranger under the mistletoe. Being single at Christmas is liberating. You can retire the dating apps for two weeks with a plan to start swiping in the new year. For now, it’s a time to kick back and spend quality time with family and friends. So, why does “single at Christmas” give rise to reactions of pity?’Aw babe, you’ll find someone’Being single over the holidays is — contrary to popular opinion — really great. I’ve never had a boyfriend at Christmas and I’ve always had a lovely time. This year will be no different. How long must I endure pitiful looks and statements like “aw babe, you’ll find someone” any time I mention my status as a singleton over the festive season? Maybe I won’t find someone! Maybe I will! My self-worth and happiness won’t be impacted either way. Let’s not forget: unmarried child-free women are the happiest people in society. Not once have I spent an evening in my pyjamas singing Celine Dion’s “All by myself” at the top of my voice à la Bridget Jones. Never have I lamented my status as a singleton or felt bad about my lack of a partner during the festive season. That hasn’t stopped distant family members asking me when I plan on getting myself a boyfriend (here’s a list of good responses to that question!).
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